The Inconvenience with Indrora.

Good afternoon.

Usually my blog posts take a light-hearted turn, but this is no joking or fun matter to me. If you cannot handle Serious iKitsune, please do not read this post.

My mate, Indrora, is in what amounts to serious danger.

He had planned to fly out to be with me on January 1st, as a symbolic start of a new 2011, and our new life together. He's 19, and resides with his parents in New Mexico. In early December, I purchased a round-trip ticket on American Airlines for him, departing 1 January and returning 14 January, in case he decided he did not like it here. I told him to inform his parents as early as possible, and as gently as possible so that they could talk things out. From what I understood, his family life had been rocky, at best.

Things fell the hell apart the week of Christmas. Apparently a discussion was raised during their "family togetherness time" (forgive me, I forget the exact words his mother used on the telephone) to thank him for not leaving to pursue his hedonistic ways. He told them, in his words, "Cool story, bro, but I'm still out of here." At this point I overnighted him an extra cell phone in case his parents took the one they had provided him away.

His parents tried to scare him, first by digging up an abandoned MySpace profile of someone who has a similar RL name to me, and then by digging up drama related to my furry past which he was already privy to.

A word about my furry drama. Say exactly all you like, many furries tend to be butthurt crowdsurfing whiners. I may have made some mistakes in my past, yes, but that does not define me, and is not who I am. I, for the most part, try to make the right decisions, but sometimes those may not be the best ones in the given situation.

On December 26, I called and spoke to Indrora's mother. She is a very xenophobic individual, who claims to be an ex-Marine skilled in Ju-jitsu. I seriously wish I had recorded this telephone call. She claimed that Indrora is mentally handicapped, and can't survive without his family and caretakers. "He doesn't even take the dishes off his desk for 3 or 4 days, how would you stand having that in your house?" I responded that it sounds normal for a 19 year old with an interest in programming to be a bit of a bum. "MORGAN ISN'T NORMAL!" she shrieked. "HE IS A DISABLED CHILD, AND YOU ARE TRYING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HIM!" Thankfully, she hung up at this point.

My last actual contact with Indrora was on December 28th, via a SMS from the phone I had sent him. It read: "Im calling 911". No context was provided, nor was I able to get ahold of him after this.

Roughly two days later, I received a telephone call from an attorney representing Indrora's family. She was sent to bully me into not contacting Indrora any more. Her line was "You and I both know that Morgan is incapable of taking care of himself in the real world, and needs the support structure of his family, possibly for the rest of his life." I told her I would have to speak to counsel before I entered into any agreements, but she pressed the issue. I terminated the call, and she proceeded to email me, stating we had come to an agreement that I be reimbursed for the plane ticket and my cell phone, and I would never contact Indrora again. My ass!

I called the attorney back later that day to express that I did not agree with the mail she had sent me, and she replied "It's not going to be that big a deal anyhow, Morgan is being evaluated by a psychiatrist, and once we get that, I've already got a judge willing to sign an injunction to prevent a dangerous internet predator from contacting Morgan." She terminated the call at this point. I am still attempting to locate an attorney with experience in New Mexico family law, as my usual attorney is not familiar with NM law.

Over the last couple weeks, people have been signing into Indrora's email, as evidenced by the Single Female Lawyer sending me a threatening email over contacting Morgan as "LantherZero", who is in fact another user of #linuxfurs on Anthrochat, and a friend of Indrora. She sent a very oddly worded email. I'm excerpting it below.

In my investigation of this case, I have run into many people who seem
to believe that, because Morgan is 19, state and federal law
automatically validate his "consent" to a sexual relationship. This is
simply not true. Morgan has a mental condition which prevents him from
understanding the consequences of many sexual acts. He is explicitly
protected by 1978 NMSA 30-9-10(A)(4). Of course, the family is
powerless to initiate criminal charges and has no intention asking
that William Shaw be charged with attempted criminal sexual
penetration. However, there are civil injunctive remedies available to
help my clients fulfill their legal responsibility to protect Morgan.

She's blowing bullshit, but at this point I think I might need to go to court to actually guarantee Indrora's freedom. I hope someone with any advice reads this, I'm at a loss.

I love you, Indrora, and I will never give up, unless you tell me to yourself.